Dear Sam:

You wrote that you hate living where you are living. Maybe someday, not too  long from now, you can live someplace else, away from your sister, away from the society you dislike, someplace more suitable for you.

Regarding the online guy friends you dislike, maybe you can post less- or no selfies, so that less guys respond to you.

You cannot change other people’s behaviors (example catcalling you). You can only change your behaviors. And so, learn what behaviors on your part bring about what reactions and if possible, change those. Be selective as to whom you interact with, disconnecting from people who disrespect and mistreat you, and connect to people who respect you and treat you well.

And please, do post here anytime.

anita