Thanks for both your responses, i really really appreciate it.

I feel i’ve exhausted all avenues if i’m honest. I’ve politely told him that his jokes offend me. I’ve screamed and shouted and broken up with him about it. I’ve tried to stay calm and ignore it. A year in a and he still does it. He makes me feel even more pathetic for bringing it up by saying I can’t take a joke and then throws in my face that “i’ve said worse.” I really don’t know what to do.

Anita – you say: Don’t you think that he needs to acknowledge this behavior and change it immediately?

How do i do that? I’ve mentioned it so many times in such a range of different ways!