Hi Robin. I hope that job is going well. I usually just lurk and read the inspirational stuff here on Tiny Buddha but I had to reply to your post.

I’ve been and am in your shoes as I type this.In fact I can beat your story 10 times over.I’m 47 years old and have faced divorce,bankruptcy,eviction,unemployment,estrangement from loved ones and health problems in the last 10 years.

Just got laid off in June from a job a had for three years working extremely hard for a low wage.I too am months behind on my car loan and unemployment only pays my rent.

I’ve been trying to rebuild a life for myself forever and it’s 2 steps forward 3 steps back everytime. Have I made you feel better yet? LOL

Best advice I can give is try not to make important life altering decisions while in your weakened state.It seems all the wolves come out when they know you’re down.They’ll try to take your home your car and everything if you let them.Fuck ’em all.

Tell the car co. they”ll get they’re money.Did you know you can get numerous payment extensions by paying a small fee tacked onto your loan. Did you know you have renters rights? Don’t leave your home and don’t make things worse for yourself.I’m the king of self destruction so I speak from experience.

Lastly feel free to email me if you need a friend or advice.rsteve60@ymail.com

Good Luck