Dear Emelle:

I am not in your situation, co parenting a child. Or living with a husband as a roommate.

If you are still open to communication  with me, I want to bring up something: you wrote that you don’t want to subject your daughter, who is already suffering from anxiety, to “a divorce and shared placement”.

Problem is, she is presently subjected to the tension between you and your husband living as roommates, and to you “increased pain and anger” as you are not at peace with the situation with your husband.

anita