Oh sorry since the avatar is the same for everyone I got confused. This makes more sense. He too mentioned I insisted on thisrelationship. He is a 30 plus year old man, had he not wanted to date me he could have told me that instead of being passive aggressive and punishing me for wanting to be with him. I definitely agree that he was scared all the time I would get upset but I only got upset when his behavior made no sense and once I would complain he would fight back. And i cant possibly see his behavior as accommodating me. He was not a good bf. And why on Earth would he want to please a girl he had just met? I don’t understand. He has no problem telling people off and getting into discussions at all.