HI Eliana, I feel I cannot let go and I am becoming attached to him, that somehow I feel he is not the right person (because he does not give me full attention or he is not similar to me). I am scared of ending up like my marriage that I stayed too long , going into depression. I have this panic feeling when talking about moving forward and plan future meetings.. I am good with him only if I am fine with myself and totally calm, but only for limited time. I never know when enough is enough or when I can take it.. so confused and stressed