Dear Connie:

When I replied to you yesterday I didn’t connect this new thread to the one before it where we recently communicated about your new awareness that your ex boyfriend was a habitual liar, one who lied a lot and with elaborate details added to some of his lies.

It doesn’t mean that your stuff in his place is unsafe, as habitual liars do not lie all the time. Sometimes they do and at other times they don’t. And as I wrote to you on the other thread, him being a habitual liar, does not mean he didn’t have loving feelings for you. It is just that you can never know for sure if what he says is true, or not.

I hope that your next love relationship will be with an honest man, so you don’t have to guess at any one time if he is telling the truth, or not. I hope that… your “glimpse of hope” evaporates every time you think to yourself how frustrating it would be to have a lifetime with a man who habitually lies.

anita