Dear Emma:

Like you wrote, I wouldn’t know if he will regret his behavior with you, his choice.  For him to regret his decision he will have to look back at it and consider what would have been if he made a different decision. He would have to examine his past, and present, and evaluate his behavior. Some people avoid such introspection. If he avoids such on a regular basis then he will not regret his decision. Unfortunately for him, if he is not willing to examine his life he is unlikely to have a better life in the future than he is having now.

I do hope you move on and do post again if you’d like.

anita