Dear B:

It reads to me that it is time for you, B, to attend quality psychotherapy, and I hope you do. Your anxiety has been going on and on for a long time. You wrote that you tried different things to make the relationship/ your life better but nothing works, and you wrote that you can’t take it anymore (title of your thread).

Sometimes we need help. And the help you need is not in your boyfriend’s ability to give you. This may or may not be the right relationship for you, I don’t know. You will need to figure it out when you reach calm, peace of mind, and that may be only following some time in quality, effective psychotherapy.

anita