Dear Mina:

Your last post impresses me a whole lot as insightful and honest.

* Is it a typo: “I am very much afraid that in the future I won’t be able to meet someone better than me”- did you mean “better than me (Mina)” or better than him (ex boyfriend)?

To the insightful and honest post (again, I am moved by your insight and honesty): “Just like how baby needs their mother to survive, I need this fake emotional relationship that I created by myself to survive… How can … I let go?”

My answer: you don’t have to let go. For as long as you need it to survive, keep it, be it in your mind only. Keep it going.

If and when you are able and willing to examine or re-examine things, to decide what is true and real and what is not, to evaluate and decide, then do so and  let go of what is not true or real. Not before.

anita