Dear Felita:

I will rewrite to you what I wrote earlier then:

You wrote that you were “raised normally. No intimate relationship but not cold either. Just normal and average”.

My comment: a child needs an “intimate relationship” with a parent/ a care taker, so not having such makes a childhood not a good childhood even if it is what is average/ normal.

Regarding you asking your mother a question and she answering: “are you really don’t know or pretend to not know?” means to me that she accused you of dishonesty, suggesting that you knew the answer to your own question but was pretending to not know and tricking your mother that way. Am I correct?

anita