Oh another thought maybe you can listen to is soomwtimes I think… if I’m nice… and he’s thinking in his head I’m lying to her and she’s nice and forgiving me…. then I look stupid and like a fool to him. Does that make sense? It’s like if I sit here and I’m like I love you so much you’re my bestfriend you’re my everything I forgive you. Anne might still be lying…. then I look like an idiot. But at the same time…. this can happen with anyone? A bestfriend a family member. You can be nice and loyal and they can be talking behind your back. It’s life. And I can’t see it that way. Odd? advice? In addition to my previous post.