Thank you Inky! Your words mean a lot – I think my biggest fear was I won’t get married – I did. Then the separation – well I got divorced. So I have lived my worst fears already, life is fine. There are losses to be grieved but well there are good things in life too. And am glad you said – not just that I will find someone but also, I will be fine, gen if I don’t, like many ppl don’t.

One day at a time…couple of years back I couldn’t imagine my life without my ex, but today I am living a decent life, in some years, living alone will probably not be that much of a fear.