Dear Cal:

I understand and appreciate you acting as a responsible father to your children. It is most important that they will be least harmed by this. I see the problem more than whether or not this online affair expands to a physical affair. I see the bigger issue as her being uncaring about you, not minding your suffering, being indifferent to it, at the least. That is too bad. That lack of caring may extend beyond this affair, if it is to end soon.

I hope you post again anytime. I will be back in 17 hours or so, and if you post again by then, I will reply.

anita