Anita,

In a serious tone, not really often – only when I embarrass her by refusing to participate in social related things.

The last time was 3 months ago after my break up, I was very mad all the time and was just not in a right place.

She told me that I am “weird” and If she wasn’t my mother, she would never even be friends with me If she is the same age as me, that I am the type of person that people dislike the most, and how I do not have a lot of friends.

That really hurts me when she said that.

I am also very picky when it comes to food, I eat mostly expensive food, and I do not like spicy food and vegetable. She scolded me for this and told me how people are never going to accept me because of this. How in front of me people are going to be nice but actually behind my back – they are bashing me to death. It isn’t true because my friends has always been accepting of my picky taste.

How I always overreact about things that drives people to dislike me.

That is exactly what she told me.

-Mina