Dear cranberry:

Congratulations for joining three clubs and intending to attend the workshop- excellent choice in your aim to figure out what to choose for a major. Starting counseling is another excellent choice- so far five excellent choices.

Advice: if you can resist checking your ex boyfriend’s social media- that will be a good thing since following it causes you distress. He told you that he doesn’t want to give you false hope, that to me is a No to your question to him about dating again.

Also, focus on the excellent five choices that you made, get engaged and involved in each best you can, learn all you can from each one, and take it from there. Tomorrow you will know a bit better than today and the day after tomorrow you may learn something new, and so, your answers will come to you bit by bit as you continue to focus on the here-and-now of your activities and interactions.

anita