Miney10,

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.  For me, the details sometimes get in the way of the big picture. He wanted to leave and that’s not your fault. The best thing to do is to let him leave and move on with your life. If he wants to come back to you, he will try but ask yourself if there isn’t something better out there. Break-ups, with as difficult as they are, are also time for growth and opportunity. This is a chance for you to go after all the things you couldn’t have with him. Even if it’s as silly as, for example, “I want to live in the country and he only wants to live in cities”. Go back and think about the reasons why you were incompatible and focus on finding someone or something that you’re more compatible with.

I hope this helps 🙂