To Connie and Eliana,

I cannot help but get myself involved in this thread.

I wished my ex a happy birthday about 2 months ago.

His response was very lovely and he felt touched with me wishing him a happy birthday.

Of course, our situation is very different especially the nature of the break up and relationship,

In a way wishing my ex well, helped me heal. Knowing he also wished me well.

It was beautiful.

But again, I understand that our situation is very different and our exes are also very different person.

and maybe in your case, it is indeed better to not wish him.

All love.

-Mina