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sorry for writing after two month ,i have read your comments and dint contacted him and he texted me” Hi “one time and i dint reply after that he never texted me .from last two months even his gf wasnt in that city for about 20 days .on the other hand i could see his whatsapp status it was sad and like he was missing me and his profile pic was the same pic which i took of him(that wasnt too good)
meanwhile i was confused too that why he dint contacted me because i was in commited relationship with him etc and if he is posting such status like he is missing me etc ..it was too tough days for me .but i wanted the reason that why he did like this ?and the reason y he dint come back when i walked away .
after 45 days of silence it was his BDAY and i wished him .he thanked me .and then no conversation ..
one of my mutual friend asked him the reason of breakup before 3 days .and his reply was that
1- i was in contact with my EX and my ex texted him and asked him indirectly that when is he going to meet me in my country?? even though i m nt in contact with my ex .and i dnt knw how nd why has my ex texxted him like this ?as no one knew about relationship even not my ex. and if my ex texted him like this y didnt my bf discussd wd me nd startd ignoruing me .
2- he said he doesnt like that i share my things to some of his friends . here i am wrong but he never told me that he mind such thing i never ever knew this he was always okey about these things ..i was so suprised with his this reason .
3-he said i dont try to understand him and ask him to call me or talk to me eveytime etc.here i am again very suprised because i never did this i always respected his privacy his time his job time .apart from last week of my walking away i complained him that u dont talk or text or call me …
4-once he said me that he ll send his parents for proposal then i should convince my family and i told him that u should convince my family etc and started kidding .thus he thinks i am not serious about him etc whatsoever .
and that mutual friend told him to contact me directly and tell me reasons as i wanted to know . nd he replied him he will call me in somedays .but my ex doesnt know that that mutual friend told me the reasons .he still thnks i dont knw the reason .
so yestrday i texted him on his mobile no that just let me know when u have time so that i can calll you i dint get any reply .i thought may b my message wasnt deliverd
so today was my birthday nd i got birthday TEXT msg from him .i replied him on Whatsapp to be sure that my msg is deliverd to him .i replied thank you and again i wrote that when u get free just let me know i ll call u or jst call me …
he seen my text in 5 mints but he dint respond me yet after 11 hours ..
i want to add here today he went for picnic with his friend .may be he was busy …
and he told that mutual friend that he dont wana live with that another gf .when he discussd about me ..
i dont know where life is going and what to do ?
and why he is doing such behaviour ,
what does it mean??what should i do now ?
thank you .