Hi Maria,

The verbal abuse (yelling)..and aggression (throwing his phone against the wall) is not something you or any woman should tolerate. This is considered Domestic violence. Let’s suppose one of the neighbors heard him telling or throwing things. They might pick up phone and call the police and he could get arrested. Before you proceed any further with this man, he needs help. Perhaps Psychotherapy or Anger Management..to resolve his anger issues. Move out of you are living with him, because if left unresolved, it will only get worse. Many verbally abusive people can become physically abusive (no matter how nice they might be sometimes). I am sure this is not what you want for your life. Please have no contact with him until he gets the help he needs. It may also be helpful for you to read a wonderful book called “co-dependent no more”. A best selling book.

• This reply was modified 7 years, 2 months ago by Eliana.