Hi Aura,

My mom would always tell me this ” finding a good man is like winning the lottery, it is nearly impossible”. I have dated my share of amazing man and my share of assholes. Don’t get stuck in the idea that there is something better out there for you. What matters, is that you love him. If you love him, fight for the love you have for him. I feel like a lot of the emotions that you are feeling, are due to what your mom has said about him. I am like that too- if someone says negative things about someone that I am dating, I will soon start to believe them- specially if their opinions matter to me. So my questions to you are as follow: Does he make you happy? Can you imagine living life without him?

Love is soooooo much more than physical appearance. I rather be with a man that is not the best looking out there but that treats me like a queen. I now appreciate a good man because I dated assholes so be careful in your decision.

I wish you all the best!

Rox