Hi Lester,

If you really love this woman, don’t punish her or ruin something beautiful over her past. She can’t go back and erase it. It doesn’t matter what she called her prior boyfriends before. None of it matters. It’s out of both your control, and you should look for the positive in this woman and a wonderful future with her. If you meet another woman, then another, they are most likely going to have sexual pasts too, or prior boyfriends.

Concentrate on today, the present and all the beautiful feelings. Don’t psych yourself out over past events no one can control. You will just make yourself resentful and upset, when you don’t need to be. Don’t let the past define your future.