Hi Nia N,
To him, you have done the “unforgivable”: You stood up. You told the truth. You contacted the ex. You aired the dirty laundry. He knows that you know and now everyone knows. Gas lighting and manipulation could not stand under your blatant honesty.
By him blocking you, he has (tried to, at any rate) made you the Bad Guy. We only block the intolerable, right?? Wrong. We block those who make us the most uncomfortable. He tried to unsuccessfully have two women. You said “No thanks”. Now he just has one (who rejected him, or whom he rejected first, how romantic, huh?)
Sister, hold your head up. And if anyone tells you what a great guy he is, smile and say, “Well, not so much.” They will be thunderstruck (and so will he) when word gets back that you dumped HIM. Let everyone believe that.
Best,
Inky
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