Hi Gagan,

I know you had a great and loving friendship with her. But was she *really* Your friend when she came over to tease you, sit on your bed, only to tell you how happy she was with another man? If it were me, I would be fuming. Sometimes, we tend to put people on a pedestal, see only the good, and none of the bad. I’m not saying everyone is perfect, but if you really look at it, there were times, she didn’t belong on the pedestal.

As far as being friends, no. I don’t think at this time any kind of friendship is possible. It would make it awkward with her new boyfriend knowing you two had a history together, he knows you still deeply love her, and you are highly emotionally charged at this time. It’s too soon to be thinking about any kind of friendship, as it will only prolong your misery to go on seeing her. Best thing, to make a clean break and move on as best you can. Remember, you were fine, single and happy before you met her, and you will be fine again. Just be patient with the healing and grieving process, join a support group, I know I did that after the loss of a love. Each day will get a little better, but no contact with her Is best right now. Keep posting with your thoughts.