Dear magic:

Reads to me quite clearly that even if you did not say that sentence to him, that this relationship was going to end because of his parents disapproving of you as his wife (being from anther country and what not). His loyalty, emotional and financial, is to his family, not to you. So he wouldn’t have married you.

You are a hard worker, hard studying and working. What are your plans at this point (to get up from the bottom you mentioned in your last paragraph)?

anita