Dear Sonakshi:

When your ex boyfriend texted you “vicious and mean things instead of apologizing”, he clearly felt angry. I suggested he felt angry at you. Your asked: “Anger at what? My unconditional love? My undying devotion? My blind trust? My support for him? … I never gave him a reason to be angry at me… If he did all this because he was angry, well I can guarantee you that it wasn’t at me and his anger was for himself because he knew he didn’t deserve a good and loyal woman like me.”

In your original post you described yourself as “being so innocent”, a person who has “never hurt anyone”.

In comparison to you, any man, any person pales in degree of goodness, of innocence, of undying devotion. That in itself may cause even a decent, loving man to feel angry at you.

anita