Yeah, not to be all Lifetime Movie plot, but unless she is morbidly obese, skipped taking her pill, and/or is VERY not in tune with her body, it is highly unlikely she didn’t consider she might be pregnant. At thirty. By three months.

This happened “accidentally on purpose” in my family. One was a twenty year old girl. Another was a 40 year old OBGYN! And with both all the women in the family were all, “Come on!” with a side order of eye rolls. Even the twenty year old girl’s mother.

Do you really want to be with someone who has one night stands, is that careless with her birth control and actively chooses to ignore what her body is saying while having great dates with someone not the father?

I know this is not what you want to hear.

My advice still stands: Be a friend. As in “Friends help friends set up the crib”. Not a dad.

Inky