No Problem Lea, I hope they come of help.

I notice you said ” I am trying to accept the fact that there’s a possibility of get hurt again, but if the next time happens hopefully I will be a stronger individual.” Please try to remember, that as long as you seed out the “not good for you men” early on, so spotting signals & red flags that don’t sit well with you & that you don’t agree with, the chances of you getting hurt again are very very low. I did this with my current partner & anything that he presented to me that wasn’t in my eyes acceptable, I would bring this up with him & we would sort it out. Although to be fair it was never anything big, if he was texting his ex girlfriend then clearly that is not acceptable & I would walk away from him, but if I felt like he was disrespecting me I would be like look I find that disrespectful because… & we would talk about it, he would understand, & we’d move forward. From this he would know I value myself & my worth & would be more considerate of me going forward, therefore there is never any reason for him to hurt me. If it’s dealt with accordingly then all is well. There is the chance of course that very randomly out the blue he could go & cheat on me, I can never guarantee that but I can’t sit in anxiety & think about things like that, because they do not help or serve me. But I know if a situation like that should occur I am strong enough to deal with it 🙂

I hope this makes sense?

• This reply was modified 7 years, 1 month ago by Poppyxo.