Hi Louise,

This is a toxic, verbally and emotionally abusive relationship. He would have fits of rage (punching the wall, shoving the phone in your face, scaring you, making you cry, calling you horrible names, than he always apologized, yet he never got better, never went to seek counseling, instead blaming it on you, “stress” whatever. Then he gets jealous when you get a great job, instead of supporting you, he brings you down..and you say this is “your soul mate” “unconditional love” “the perfect man?” huh??

Unless verbally and emotionally abusive, angry people get the professional help they need, many times that abuse will manifest into domestic violence. If he stresses about things, do you really see this man being a father to your children? You want them to see him screaming at you? Crying? Shoving a phone in your face? The tension between the two of you? Do you really want your children to hear their father calling their mother awful names? This is a very unstable man, and is not ready to be in a relationship, or any kind of father. Please, for your own safety, get as far away from this man as possible.