Dear Mary Ellen:

The problem is that you got very little response on Match. com, correct? If this is the problem, the responses or lack of are based on your profile and photo there, and so, would you like to share about your profile, how long it is, what it says?

Also: are you actively reading and responding to men’s profiles? How long are your responses and what do you communicate in those?

You can, if you’d like, copy and paste your profile and an example of a response (personal details edited out, of course).

anita