Hi Jen,

Usually long distance relationships don’t work. Add to the fact that he’s not good with the phone. Also that he’s “got your number” in that he knows your secret formula in what to do, say and be to always win you back.

I think you made that right decision. Hopefully your last text was “I’m done.” Now be radio silence until at least the new year. He won’t forget you. I promise. However! He might move on. But he will never forget the lesson. Unfortunately, a new woman might reap the rewards of his learned lesson. So you have to be strong!

By setting your standards higher, you will attract a higher quality person and will instantly be repelled by anyone not up to your new standards. For example, looking back to when I was younger I cannot believe I put up with so much bull crap for so long. Now I see people and I can read them from a mile away!

Good Luck!

Inky