Dear Sarah:

I too would be upset too, if I was you, that he again didn’t make plans to see me, after the Tuesday get together. Unless I somehow played it cool, communicating to him that I am not really interested in seeing him soon. Any chance you communicated such to him?

I read parts of your previous thread, trying to understand better this short relationship in context of the previous one, the one with Steve. You wrote there: “Basically, I said that I was sorry about how I acted (I tried to play it off and blamed it on drinking too much) and he said he prefers t be around more ‘laid back’ people and that he didn’t think this was going to work”

Is there a chance, I am wondering, that on one hand you play it cool, aloof perhaps, and then you … sort of explode a bit with emotion, confusing the man?

(I am still motivated to learn/ help you learn from your experiences, therefore I ask)

anita