Dear Henny:

He reads like a kind man, by the way. Too bad you gave him such a difficult time that his health suffered.

I don’t think he is resting so to tell you to break up later on, at least this is not what I suggested. What I suggested that he may be considering breaking up, not that he made up his mind.

Can you give him the space he rightfully asked for, no matter how scared you are?

It will be a good practice for you, so that if the relationship does continues, you will be able in the future (no matter how scared/ insecure) to not make him suffer.

anita