Thank you!  I have gone back and forth as to whether it is fine status quo.  And it is not that he says there is no future, he has said he does not know when and if it will happen. He may never want a committed relationship.  That is really rolling the dice. I know there are no guarantees … I guaranteed my husband I would stay married to him.  But, there should at least be a shared intention or goal. The relationship is very unbalanced and that is what concerns me the most. He just told me the other day, he does not care what I do…if I see other people or not. Those are tough words to hear after being with someone for two years. Sadly, he has said that he says that bc he doesn’t have room in his life to feel jealous (bc he gets extremely jealous) – so he needs to shut down. I feel like he is 45 years old and walls are a little juvenile. I don’t know.