I gave everything to her. And all i hope in return in her attention, her willingness to sacrifice for me, to set me as her priority. Just to give me 100% as i do.

OakPine – What exactly did you ask her to do? (her willingness to sacrifice for me) , you cant make someone do something and if the other person is not on board they are going to tell you the best way they can that they are not going to do what is asked of them.

I know people who have been married for 17 year and parted ways coz they stopped feeling for each other so what is stopping you? Sometimes its scary for a gal to accept changes have you thought of that and may be when she realized she was going to loose you she had to come on board.

Asking someone to make you a priority is a huge deal. This does not have to get ugly, if you are not happy let her go and tell her the truth.