Connie:

Don’t allow yourself to succumb to temptation and a false idea of a fairy tail.  Every time you think of this man, remember that he is married.  If you get involved with someone who has committed themselves to another, you are playing with fire.  In other words no matter how perfect he may seem – what you’re not realizing is that he is a “bottom feeder”  Anyone who would step out of their committed relationship for “fun and friendship” is not only betraying their partner – they are betraying you too!  Don’t fall for it!  With the chemistry you describe it is better to keep moving.  Just think of all the heartache and regret you will have avoided by aligning yourself with someone who is open and truly available.

Don’t waste your time girl!

Erin