Hi Cate,

I appreciate your advice so much. I used to be afraid of commitment as well, but when I fell in love with him I thought I would commit to him. That makes me think that you will commit to the person that feels right, which is why I think he doesn’t feel that way for me. I know what you are saying and this is why I am here, trying to gain perspective. I want the best for myself and to be happy, even if that means to let him go. I am just trying to figure out if there is something I can hold on to, some kind of hope, but from what I am reading, is not about hope.

The people around me keep suggesting me that I should give us another chance, that I shouldn’t give up yet, which is why I feel confused.

Thanks!