Off topic:

Anita,

I find it fascinating how our Family of Origin (FOO as I like to refer to it) drives our relationships.

I wonder how I would fit in someone else’s attraction to me what would fit in their FOO past.

I know from my past FOO, I was unconsciously attracted to women who had underlying anger toward men.  Fortunately I became aware of that and worked hard on all aspects of myself, especially self love to alleviate that.

I see those relationships I attract are an indicator of my spiritual and psychological health.

I feel optimistic from my last relationship by being with a woman was not angry.

Mark