Hi Gee,

    i get upset if he’s not messaging

    i want to talk to him

   i know that it’s not right, that i should not love him

This is clear attachment. In True Love there is no wanting, needing lacking, clinging.

It is obsessive love.

In fact, any thought is an attachment. And all that you are getting in your head are thoughts….lots of them….so that is how intense the attachment is.

Love is all about being and not doing.

I can truly understand what is happening in your head. This has happened to me several times. I know that there is a strong intense pull that you are not able to control. But a good thing is at least right now you are able to distinguish whether the feeling is right or wrong. Some people get dragged into the relationship and then end up with physical and emotional problems. Do not worry I have a solution for you below.

Speaking from a spiritual context, this is the beginning of Maya, illusion, satan, devil. Strive to stay away from it now and you will be peaceful later, else it will be the beginning of problems. Most of the times this happens if you have any negative karma to be settled with this person. But do not worry, you can dissolve this karma by cutting the cords of attachment and following as suggested below.

1) You might have energetic cords (ties) of attachment with this person. These cords are invisible since they are at an energetic level. They are also called as psychic ties and they are especially in relationships. The cords of attachment need to be dissolved.

Please go through the below links to know more on what it is and what to do-
(www.ascendedrelationships.com/cutting-energy-cords)

Calling upon Archangel Michael with his golden sword is a very famous way of cutting negative cords-
(www.nikkiboruch.com/how-to-cut-energetic-cords-with-archangel-michael)

(www.amagicalworld.com/index.php/energy-healing/etheric-cord-cutting)

(www.wikihow.com/Work-With-Archangel-Michael)

There are many ways of doing this. Simply do a web search on “cutting energetic cords of attachment”

If you prefer something visual then there are videos on YouTube too.

2) Forgiveness Exercise:

Format: I _______ FORGIVE YOU _____________, YOU PLEASE FORGIVE ME AND RELEASE ME, THANK YOU.
Example: I FORGIVE YOU , YOU PLEASE FORGIVE ME AND RELEASE ME, THANK YOU.

Chant the above as many times as possible. This is effective. You can do this whenever you are not able to do the 1st one….or even when you are cooking, washing dishes, standing in a queue, lying down on the bed, or whenever those thoughts bother you.

Do both the above ‘energy healing exercises’ and see yourself coming out of the situation.

Warm Regards,

VJ