Hi Anita,

Yes, until now, i can’t tell if I’m really “in love” with him or i’m just too attached to him.
If I can describe what type of attachment it is, it’s probaby the “emotional attachment” that i have developed for him.
Whenever I have problems, I always confide to him, I tell him everything and he always listens to me and gave me a lot of encouragement.
That’s why recently, when we got separated, I always want to talk to him like I used to.
If it’s love, I’m still confused if it’s in a romantic way since I know that he’s married and can’t be with him, so definitely, I don’t want to pursue it.
But sometimes, I feel a sting in my heart if I see posts with his wife. I don’t really know if it’s jealousy or not.
So until now, I’m still sorting my feelings if it’s real or it’s just in my mind. It’s really bothersome.