Dear Jenny Lynn:

When you communicate with Glen, tell him the truth. Do not minimize your feelings, don’t joke around. Be as serious as serious can be. Tell him ahead of time that you are not joking, that you are very serious.

Also, don’t tell him a whole lot, too much. Stick to one or two main issues and keep it clear and short enough.

Give him time to respond, an hour or a few hours, or a day, so that he gives you a knee jerk response. Maybe type your feelings, for this very purpose, so that he can have time to digest it before responding.

If he does not respond to your true and honest feelings, that will be so disrespectful that I am cringing at the thought. If he responds with an attitude any less than serious and most respectful to you, I cringe as well.

Check out his response, that is crucial. Let him know, it will be very telling, for me.

I didn’t understand most of the paragraph with the word “after” in bold letters. If it is important enough and relevant to now, you can explain it to me.

anita