Hi GK,

It sounds like this guy used OK Cupid for light fun entertainment and you used it be find someone serious. He blocked you after you spoke your truth. Some people can’t handle that. I’d be pissed too (wrote a post about blocking on FaceBook). So I know the feeling. “Hey, you’re lucky I added you as a Friend at all, buddy.” For you it would be “I dated you out of the goodness of my heart, and lest we forget, I had doubts about you!”

Maybe you should find someone through mutual friends? Then it’s less easy for them to simply “block” you without social fallout and they’d be more apt to treat you with respect.

Best,

Inky