Dear Sierra:

I want to correct a mistake I made in my last reply to you. As to “I Ended it But What if I Regret it?” question, the title of your thread, my answer: you already regretted it, this is why you worry if you will regret it in the future.

I believe that you do and will regret it when you feel lonely and remember the good moments you had with him, imagining how wonderful it could be to have more of those enjoyable, close feeling moments.

So yes, you will regret it but if you got back together with him, I believe, you will have less and less good moments and more and more bad moments, and your well-being will deteriorate.

It will not be reasonable for you to regret this, but you will probably feel regret when lonely. After all, often what we feel is not reasonable. This is why it is important in our choosing, to add logic and reason to our feelings, and not decide solely by how we feel at the moment.

anita