Hi Anita- thank you for your reply and for your insight.  He has been honest in his statements to me, that’s true. He just has not been very sensitive. I also think I just need to come to terms with the fact that he does not want me. And that’s okay. It does not feel great but I don’t take it personally. It has been two years and he keeps defaulting to the same story. And he pulls back and/or ends things with me after we have a stretch of time where we had a good time.

Thank you so much!!