Hi Derek,

As we get older, education and where you got your degree matters less and less. If you read your yearly alumni bulletins you’ll see that the people who graduated ten years ago write about their amazing new jobs and houses. But the people who graduated fifty years ago talk about their grandchildren and catching up with old friends.

Obviously, you tried to prove yourself by being perfect with the grades in response to your parents’ lack of care. That may have given you some relief in the moment, but once you’re out of school, you don’t get graded. (I give you a solid A in Life, btw).

Be warned that this is your first relationship and anything could happen. Including staying together! Who knows??

I would see a qualified counselor for your issues. (Me included, so you’re not alone!!)

Just remember: your partner is not your parents!

Best,

Inky