Dear Mathilde-S:

You are welcome. To heal, learn all you can from this experience: for one, to not assume things, get the information you need instead. Notice, the relationship is over and you are still assuming “how cocky and proud he must feel”- you don’t know that, you are only assuming.

And what he is thinking right now doesn’t matter to your life. It doesn’t matter any more than what any one of the many millions of people you don’t know are thinking about anything. It doesn’t matter.

What matters is what you think. You “wonder IF (you) will ever move on”- don’t try hard to move on. Relax best you can, pay attention to your life now, as it is. Get engaged in your life.

anita