Dear Amber:

Maybe you didn’t hear from her partly because she is very busy and otherwise occupied, soon to be getting married and having to deal perhaps with the father of her two children, maybe something came up with him. Maybe she has relationship problems with her soon to be husband, I don’t know.

If she is concerned about the two of you not being close anymore, and she is deliberately keeping a no contact distance from you, then she is more motivated to stay close with you her way than she is motivated to stay close with you.

Perhaps she is a my-way-or-the-highway kind of person. Is she?

anita