Hi Unicornmeadows
Love and understanding…. Sometimes I wonder if love and understanding can exist together in the same moment of time. Perhaps not.
After a painful breakup the question that reverberated within my head – What’s love got to do with it? Everything? Nothing? Both?
It seems to me that some relationships without Love often lasted longer then they should while relationships where Love was present and real ended to soon. Love its seems did not always guarantee that a relationship would last and in some cases, Love may have required that relationship end. Then from a different perspective, if one cared to travel that path, the realisation that All of it is Love…. So, we have thousand and thousand of books, songs, moves, poems… all trying to understand This thing called Love.
I know that none of the above is likely to help… I do not believe your ex-boyfriend is lying when he said he loves you but that life is pulling him away. Life demands growth and it’s a bitter/sweet truth that sometimes its the end of a relationship that is the push we receive.
Time does not heal though it allows our attachment to the memory to fade so that we might move forward with what we have learned. Bitter/Sweet.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 