Dear Rainbow:

You are welcome. Regarding whether your “problem stems 90% from within… (or) 100% within (you)”- depends. If you are still in a troubling relationship with a parent or parents, then the problem still exists outside of you, hurting the inside of you. If you are no longer in a troubling relationship with a parent or parents, then the problem is inside of you. Our parents have …mental representatives in our brain, representative who keep playing the parents’ messages.

Which case is it, for you?

anita