Hi Anita,

Thank you for your response and suggestions, I thought it was important to state that I had said okay, even though I knew as I was saying it that it wasn’t, you’re right it was to avoid conformation and it definitely has hurt me in the end.

Some of our fights are okay, others can result in getting loud or defensive or both of us feeling like we’re not being heard by the other person  which I know is something we both need to work on.

Thanks again for your insight 🙂